Yes or No? Right Or Wrong?

In everyones life, what do you think each and everyone of us wanted? OR have you ever wonder what are the most important elements for us as human being to stay alive or success? AND with that all, is that really a benchmarking to evaluate someone is successfull, right and wrong?

Among us, some treat that work is the most important things in life to keep them survive. Without a career, there won't be life. This kind of people, they do have lots of initiative to keep on and on and on diving their lives to a job. They really can perform and colleagues around might envy with his or her capabilities. Well it's all their hardwork to achieve that. But for those that having the envious or sometime jealous feeling towards this capable person, are you willing to give up most of your free time to learn more ? Hmmm .. this is the point ... if your answer is 'NO', you know the results ...

Coming back to these people who most of everyone will salute him at work, don't you think they might be missing a lot in their life? They might not have much of friends around him or her. Why? ... As they put too much time on their work, they neglected the people around them. Also the world outside is very little known to them. Do you think they are happy with it? From an outsider point of view, we might say 'Yes' or a 'No' .. Well we are not them. How are we going to know the answer. We are giving the answer or a judgement on behalf based on what we think we have wanted for our life. So a Yes or a No, Right or Wrong, no one knows.

Some, will just did very well in the work they are doing now but they do not intend to climb up high in the corporate ladder. Those with the higher ambitious and craze for power, they'll do anything to allow themselves to climb up high or want themselves to be notice by the higher management. In this path, a lot of ugly things will happens. The unlucky ones, might end up pitifully being used as a stepping stones. And as the people around, gossiping starts. There might be news that the lady/guy slept with her/his boss that makes them powerful in the office and so on. BUT how true is that? Does anyone really sees that person on the bed fucking their bosses? Well if they really do, do you think it is wrong? As a human being, we being granted with emotions, love and lust. So what they did, is just to satisfy their sexual needs or lust. Nothing wrong with it. No one can force if either one of them object when the courting game starts.

And these power crazed being, might sacrifice people around them to climb up high, do you think they are wrong? Most all of us will say they are Wrong and shouldn't do that. But from the person him or herself, they are not wrong. They are just doing things that they are suppose to do for them to achieve. What and why they should have bother about other peoples opinion or comments on them? For those that don't agree on what i've said, let me ask you a question, if you see someone being robbed or bullied at the street, will you go over and help? i am sure you don't even bother as you might say to yourself, it's not your problem and why you want to get yourself into trouble. Well that's my point, everything that a person do, is not other people's business. So what is the problem for a person to behave the way they are? This doesn't meant that i agree some killing or robbing or raping or bullying is right things to do. But i must say that there must be a some reasons behind. They might facing some stress or mentally illed. So at the end, when somethings happens, there is a Right side of it and also the Wrong side of it. 

For me, i does hope and envy those backpackers life that they can travel around and need not to work their ass out. But then it came back to a question whether do i willing to give up everything that a backpacker does? They might be selling off all their properties to achieve their travelling dreams as well as they don't have a career of their own .. There's no definite answer for me, it could be a YES, but it could be a NO too ..

Well, some older generation might be thinking what a stupid act and loser you are without those things in your life. For these folks, money is very important, no money you are poor, no money you are a loser. Are they right about that ? Well, no doubt these backpackers are poor BUT that is just a matter of monetory terms. In fact the more you travel, the richer you are in terms of knowledge WHICH money CAN'T buy. 

So at the end, i think there is no definite answer to a YES or NO, Right or Wrong. We are using it to help us get sort of majority agreement or disagreement to make oneself felt better i guess .... But in every matter that happens, there might be a union in it... Hard to say...that's why in this content, you might think i am wrong and you are right, or even i might be right also ... ha ha ha ... go figure out on your own...

NOTES : The above is just my own thoughts ...